Lora Cheadle: Overcoming a 15 Year Affair


Sherley is a Haitian-American flight attendant who served eight years in the US Army Reserve. Her journey with Femme Naturelle began in 2012 as a way to build a safe space, a community to uplift and empower women in relationships transitioning out of crisis. She resides in New Jersey with her husband and two children.

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In this episode, Sherley speaks with Bestselling Author of FLAUNT, Lora Cheadle. Lora is a former attorney who now specializes in helping people move through betrayal. Whether this involves an intimate partner, one’s body, life, or simply the betrayal of yourself, Lora is here to create a positive change before it gets too far. 

By sharing her story, Lora walks us through the importance of understanding the trauma relating specifically to the betrayal of infidelity. Buckle up, as this story includes a broken foot, a 15 year old risqué email, a naked photo in the mail, telling the kids about 5 indiscretions and so much more. It all leads to vulnerability, clear communication, taking responsibility for your actions, and becoming emotionally intelligent. As Sherley states, every negative situation can be turned into a positive. See how that happened here when you press play on this episode. 

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Lora Cheadle helps people overcome the devastation of betrayal and confidently engage in life again – whether that betrayal is from an intimate partner, their body, life, or the realization that they’ve betrayed themselves. She’s a former attorney, podcast host, and bestselling author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self. She uses her experience of being shattered by her husband’s infidelity, to help others reclaim their identity, self-worth, and enthusiasm for life after betrayal. Named a Top Influencer by Success Women’s Conference, she has spoken on numerous stages, including the Women Economic Forum in New Deli, India. Her work has been published in Thrive Global, Yoga Magazine, and Om Yoga Magazine, among others.

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